Dear me.

Hi lovely,

Yes, you are lovely and beautiful and stunning, I could keep going on how amazing I think you are but I may not finish today. I see you have been doubting that lately because your starting to pay attention to those opinions again; “you’re too small,” “you’ve gained some ka weight”. I know motherhood did its thing, but you are fine just the way you are. You can’t be picking habits to the tune of opinions. Say this out loud,


Am actually not here for our body dissatisfaction today. It’s something else.

I recognize this week has been especially hard for you Dear Me because some realities hit different on some days.

In life, the people you trust can and will betray you consciously or unconsciously, what matters the most is how you respond. Because that’s the only thing you have control over. Your actions.

I want to say, I am proud of you Dear Me, you’ve done well.

I understand that sometimes all you need is a warm hug or a cup of mint tea, or some silence. Maybe Decent music, I see you’ve picked up the Sofar sounds collection lately. Good choice and please note your taste in music has always been remarkable ๐Ÿ˜. you probably want to rant in Ernest’s inbox as always. I know you would like a day out but Please don’t drink again. You make bad decisions when you do. You could read a new book. Or watch one of those youtube movies that make you cry so you can blow off some steam. Think back to the days a cold Coca-Cola would do. I noticed lately you like the Apple soda.

You also like to dance. Remember ๐Ÿ˜

All of that is okay beloved, Do you!

But don’t ever forget to keep your eyes and heart on the Father. Remember when he told you to let go and let him? That has been going on nicely. You have managed to adopt a lifestyle of forgiveness because you’ve seen how refreshing it is to let go of the hurt.

So today,I have come to remind you that you have come a long way and you have done well my friend, you are stronger than you think.

I also like your new friends, the ones from the Afro bloggers community. Those people are trailblazers, you did good to get out of your comfort zone and go out a little. Look at all the amazing places you’ve visited through the words of these amazing humans. See how you finally found your tribe. You are not alone.

I like what one of them said to you in the middle of your break down this week;

I need you to be strong, brace yourself and be in control of your emotions don’t let this get the Best of You I want to believe you are in a better place than where you were some time ago.

Please don’t ever be discouraged and don’t hold any grudge against them just move on as much as possible. If you need to avoid them so that you don’t hurt and feel bad please do for your own sanity and your own peace of mind.

Thank you Tori Teller๐Ÿ’ž

So now that we have established that you are strong and beautiful. I want you to know there is no stopping you now. You are in a good place exactly where you need to be. Sorrow lasts but a moment, should not take longer, so please get your ass out of your misery, you’ve got dreams to chase.

Yours with love and affection,


Wow. Thank you Me. I will be back next week better.

Till then

Be kind Be humble Spread love

19 thoughts on “Dear me.

  1. Great sense of self love and being your own companion. Counting your blessings one by one and getting surprised to what the Lord has done and the achievements you’ve made.

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  2. Dear Tikia,
    I’m glad you’re feeling a lot better now.
    Always remember that God’s got you, so never stop trusting him.
    I love you plenty!
    Sending a truck load of hugs, love and light!๐Ÿ’–โœจ

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