Hello there overcomers?🤗
It’s been a minute. Consistency left me because life was busy happening. But I think I have come to realise I don’t want to share on here because I have to. I want to do it when it matters. And so we shall have an inconsistent consistent schedule.(If that makes any sense)
So the month of October showed me flames. I ended up in surgery that was successful, GLORY TO GOD. No complications and I am healing well.
For some reason I was convinced whatever was happening would not end in death. But I still thought about it. So before I say what I want to say today. I am sharing where my mind was on the night of my diagnosis.
How I'm able to be here writing this, is a mystery. I am literally a ticking time bomb.
I am convinced that this doesn't end in death though.
But I am thinking about it now.
So this is how being between life and death feels like;
I have made it a point to remind my sister to cut my babies nails and feed her well. I trust her because she follows Manuella Mulondo and I like her view on raising kids.
I also told her to burn my diaries because even I cringe when I see how my mind worked back in the day.
Now I wonder, why have I always been ashamed of my old self?
I never re-read my old thoughts because it reminds me of who I used to be.
We can't go deep into that because I am dying.
I want to talk about important things like.....
First off am not dying.
My life is just hanging on a very thin thread. I am bleeding into my stomach.
When I was told the results of the scan and how life threatening my verdict was
I felt a peace and calmness that I didn't have before the scan.
The Spirit nudged me right before all the pains started 3days ago.
I have been convinced of his faithfulness the whole time
But there is something powerful about knowledge. Knowledge is power.Not knowing what was causing the pain was scaring me,now that I know at least I know what to talk to God about.
Okay let me be honest.
When the news hit me all I could think about is if I would be able to make it to some job interview that would make my mum really happy before I could go into surgery.
I was busy asking the Doctor if this could wait. (So I could rush into the job interview and come back and save my life)
Even on my could be death bed I want to do what will make her happy at the expense of my life. I must adore this woman.
Anyway I am here right now trying to stay sane.
I am not scared.
My daughter gave me a sweet hug when I came back home today.Maybe she knows?
I find comfort in that.
My girl is on my mind.
I pray she grows up to be a Saint like her name.
I trust God to take good care of her if I do go.
I am thinking of what noble bible character she could be because my little sisters have a costume Sunday at church and each kid is supposed to dress like they favourite Bible character.
I think Eren is like the Prophet Martha.
She stood out in a time when women were the lesser person.
My baby girl was born to stand out.
If I die, I wonder what people will tell her about me....
I am here wondering maybe if I had multiple assets if that is what I would be worried about.
I was dying and all I could think about was what would my daughter hear about her mum. Not in terms of assets but in terms of Character. Things like;
“oh dear, your mum was the kindest most giving person I knew in her day.”
I am glad that I didn’t think she was going to suffer. I trust my family to love her. I have seen them love her and I am convinced she would turn out to be a decent human.
Let me take a moment to thank God for my mum and sisters. They are the most annoying humans on this planet. But they love truly. I have disappointed them in so many ways but they will and have stuck around no matter what.
(Mr.God now I have no option but to be rich. You better do something oooh. My family needs a vacation)
So Legacy and death is what I want to talk about.
First of all the merriam Webster dictionary defines legacy as a gift by will especially of money or personal property.
This whole time I’ve thought legacy is about life and living. The things you’ve done and achieved during your life time.
I guess it just one of those words with multiple meanings.
There has been so much death happening this passed two years with covid amplifying the death rates world wide and I could not really write on that because I could not understand the position of the person that found themselves on a Death bed. We bless the Lord for those that survived. And for those that didn’t make it. May there souls continue to rest in peace.
Now that I have been in that position.
First of all when I passed out from pain. I didn’t see any bright white light maybe that is why I am still here. It was dark and time stopped and when I woke up I was still at peace.
In the face of death I was at peace. And I can only thank God for the gift of my life. And faith.
So coming back from all this, I found that two things are very important in this life. Spirituality and Charcter.
And spirituality fuels character. Maybe it’s just one thing.
I don’t think there is any spiritual entity that advocates for negativity.
Spirituality revolves around kindness ,love and humility.
It’s about peacefulness, mindfulness and stillness amidst storms.
Now that I am back, I am hoping that as I continue to pursue things like attaining wealth( I really want to be wealthy God help me)
I also want to find love. The one that can finally give me a good story to write about. The love that ends in growing old together and all those butterfly in the tummy enhancing feelings.
I want to see my Eren manifest greatness
I want every good thing that the lord wants for me.
But in all this getting, I WANT GOD. I never want to get lost in the pursuit of life in this world. I want to get lost in the pursuit of God.
I want for when my time comes to be at peace. I want the only thing in my Mind to be
GLORY TO GOD.
And I want Eren to say in her euology for me;
My Mama was kind, she was humble and she loved people.
Mama loved God.
(I am hoping I will also have won a nobel prize by then also 👀 If I do. She better mention it ooh )
If Legacy is a gift. When I die, I want my gift to be Kindness, humility and love.
And it’s a wrap beautiful people.
Somethings to think about;
who are you surrounding yourself with?
Where are you at with God?
Does death scare you? If it does why are you sacred?
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Be kind, Be humble, Spread love.